
'Birthday Boy' Edward and I
My first Christmas in Tanzania was spent in true local style. My brother and I set off late on Christmas morning heading up the coast towards Bagamoyo (45 miles north of Dar es Salaam). We stopped off at the supermarket, which apart from the cheesy Christmas music; check out girls with flashing Santa hats and the tall, slim young man dressed up as Santa Claus felt just like any other day. We got a few extra provisions including a birthday cake as one of the boys was celebrating his birthday on Christmas Day.
The roads were pretty quiet as we headed out of the city. There were signs of the flooding that was so bad only the week before. Most of the river beds were dry again but there was evidence of where the water had cascaded down leaving debris in its wake. Then a bit further north there were houses near to the road still under several feet of water. We got held up for a while at the town of Mekete, which had a bustling market of fruit, vegetables, second hand clothes and lots more plus plenty of daladalas picking up and dropping people off.

Shadya's 'White House'
After Mekete, the roads were pretty quiet and at a little village beside the main road we turned off onto a narrow sandy track. We twisted and turned for a couple of miles into and out of big hollows full of water past a few dwellings and a couple of grand houses, then got our first view of Shadya’s (my brother’s girlfriend) house. She bought the land a while ago and has spent the last year having the house built to the complete surprise of my brother.
The house is on a plot of 17 acres, some of it planted with fruit and vegetables, some of it still grass land. There are lakes and swampy land at one side of the plot and mango trees everywhere. We arrived to find Shadya stirring a big cooking pot on a charcoal fire outside. This was to be our pilau for lunch. She’d just added rice to tomatoes and spices. We sat down and immediately sampled a mango that had fallen off one of the trees that morning. Sweet and delicious, the juice dripped off our chins.

Juicy mangoes
Then some introductions as there seemed to be plenty of people around. Shadya’s sister Maria who lives at the house full-time, her two sons Elias (16) and Enock (12) who were back from school for the long holidays, four young men (around 17/18) who help out on the farm, a few family friends, neighbours from the village and three orphan boys who joined us for the celebrations. I didn’t meet everyone but at one stage did a head count and we were about 40 people!

The 'kitchen'
I got the grand tour of the house, which is very impressive. There is one main living room with kitchen area, two bedrooms, a shower room and a loo. Everything has been beautifully done (coving, recessed spotlights, granite work surface, and lovely tiles on the floor) but it’s still a work in progress. There is plumbing and wiring but no electricity or running water yet – that’s a future project. However there is a borehole with water pump a short walk away and a small generator that was used to power the fridge and in the evenings.
Outside the house is another block with a toilet and shower and a small banda for the chickens. All the food preparation, cooking and washing up is done outside around the chicken house.

The mango grove
About 50 yards from the house is a grove of mango trees, all about 100 years old. They have been a important part of the village and according to Shadya were where the young girls came to learn how to be women – a kind of initiation I guess.

Lunch is served
We set up tables, chairs and mats under the shade of the trees and then the food was ready. For those sitting on the mats (segregated male and female and a mix of adults and children) they got a big tray of pilau and sauce and all dug in with their hands (the right only as the left is considered unclean) rolled and kneaded the mixture into balls to eat it.

Our Christmas lunch
The rest of us helped ourselves from the bowls on the table. There was pilau with goat (two goats were slaughtered the day before especially for the feast), a tomato based casserole with goat, potato and chillies; a pea, tomato and onion casserole, plain rice and kachumbari (a salad with onion, tomato, chilli and lime juice – very refreshing). We also had slices of fresh mango and pineapple.

Edward - 10 today
Then it was time for the birthday celebrations. Phil surreptitiously brought out the cake. Shadya had fun trying to keep the candles lit in the breeze long enough to bring over Edward, the birthday boy who was 10 to blow them out. We all sang Happy Birthday and everyone got a slice of the rather tasty chocolate cake.
With full bellies some of the group slept, others cleared and washed up, some of the boys kicked a ball around and then we had a little dance competition.

DJs galore
Also under the trees was a small generator, connected up to some speakers and a laptop with Elias, Enock and several of the boys taking turns playing DJ. Just shows how technology can work in the most rural of settings. The boys popped, gyrated and impressed us with their dance moves and the winner got Tsh. 2,000 (about 80p). Shadya even joined in at one stage.
The party carried on into the evening with motorbikes coming and going with both people and provisions (mostly crates of sodas and beers). When anyone new arrived they were fed and watered and joined one of the groups. Eventually we were just a couple of groups, some chatting, some dancing.

Lala salaama (sleep peacefully)
Quite a lot of the group had already stayed up all night drinking and dancing. So one by one they crashed out – some on the little verandah outside the house, others on mattresses, some in cars, or on the sofas and chairs in the house. Shadya very kindly gave up her bed for me and slept on the floor alongside all covered up like an Egyptian mummy.
At about 1:30am I chatted to my sister, brother-in-law and mum back in England. We’d tried to set up a Skype call but couldn’t get a signal on the modem. However there was enough of one for them to call me on my mobile. It was kind of surreal talking to them and visualising them at their house in London whilst I was tucked up in bed in the middle of the bush!

Shadya and Abdallah
One thing I was really aware of was the difference in humidity. In the village it was much fresher, cooler at night and far less sticky than Dar. Also being out in the middle of nowhere it was really quiet (once the generator went off). With no light pollution as well the stars were fantastic. I spent ages just staring into the sky. As most of the conversations were going on in Swahili, too fast and complex for me to follow, the stars were a lovely distraction.

Elias & Phil on BBQ duty
The following morning started slowly with breakfast outside. Tea and coffee with milk fresh from a neighbour’s cow, some of the mangoes that had dropped from the trees overnight and delicious mandazis (little deep fried cakes – sometimes they’re more like doughnuts) flavoured with ginger and other Zanzibari spices.
Boxing Day was BBQ day with Phil and nephew Elias on duty. Phil marinated chicken wings, beef sausages and beautiful beef fillets, created a makeshift barbecue and we savoured the results with a glass of wine. I made a big salad as my contribution.

Edward grooving
Later birthday boy Edward entertained us. He came out of the house dressed in a black suit, white shirt, pointed black shoes about four sizes too big and a massive pair of sunglasses and proceeded to dance like a professional.

Sun setting off the clouds over a peaceful landscape
Before we left in the early evening, nephew Elias took me on a tour of the plot. Up beyond the water pump and the produce (cassava, tomatoes, chillies, ground nuts, watermelon and more) were cashew nut trees, more mangoes laden with fruit and then the lakes. We watched the sun set behind a fantastic cloud formation and I realised just how relaxed I was feeling.
What a beautiful setting, great food and great company. I’m very excited to be going back for New Year!

Happy asleep in the rice basket
PS Forgot to mention, there were a couple of tiny kittens at the farm, Jonsina and Happy. Having left my cats behind in UK with new owners it was great to have a feline ‘fix’.